Okay, So What to Do After a Breakup?

So it is over. The relationship the both of you have valued, nurtured and endured is finally nearing its death. You wonder if it's premature or well-deserved. You suddenly start imagining, maybe remembering, what being single is like; The dinners spent alone, lazy Sunday afternoons listening to old blues records, rainy nights spent drinking whiskey and admiring the sound raindrops make on the cold concrete outside your window. Is it something to be dreaded, or something that you embrace? Do you try to win her back, or do you play the field? What to do after a breakup?

First of all you need to be honest with yourself. Do you really love her? How much? What are the sacrifices you are willing to make to be with her? If you do love her, if the thought of spending the rest of your life without her sends a chill up your spine and a welling tear in your eye; if every waking moment the desire of being in her presence is too overwhelming to endure, knowing that when you stand in front of her you are staring destiny square in the eye, then you have to win her back. You have got to get her back. You are certain it is love, after all. And love is everything. Love is the only thing worth fighting for. That is what to do after a breakup.

One of the first steps you can do is to realize that you need to change. You cannot be the same person you were before. The both of you cannot be the same person. You will need to be the one to initiate change. As soon as everything becomes routine, being stagnant may once again take over, boring her, or the both of you into separation. Try new things to spice it up. Surprise her with spontaneity. Try to explore new things together. Plan a trip overseas, live off the grid. Romance her with words, a quiet dinner for two by the ocean. Give her breakfast in bed. These are just some of the ways to win her back, and there are more, on what to do after a breakup.

A second chance does not come around that often. Once she gives it to you. Be sure that you are in it for the long haul. Make it work this time around. Do everything to make the relationship work. Being in a committed relationship takes work, but it is worth it.

Unusual Date Ideas

Have you been doing the same dating routine for ages? Are you bored of doing the same things again and again? Maybe now is the time to stop being so traditional and try the thrill of a different kind of dating plans. Better take these down, be ready and try these unusual date ideas that will surely make your relationship jumping back into a full swing.

1. Do you both love to travel? Well go get the cheapest, soonest flight and enjoy the weekend anywhere without thinking of anything else. Don't pack anything and just go with the flow. Take pictures of what happened as an evidence of a weekend you will surely remember. Que sera sera!

2. How brave can you go, with a...microphone? Enjoy a night at Karaoke night and register yourself as contestants. Sing your favorite love song and dedicate it to your girl. She will surely feel special. You don't have to sing well you just have to wear a brave face and sing with all your might. Who knows? You might be the next big thing.

3. Have a scavenger hunt. To make this even more fun, hunt personal and kinky stuff around the house. Give the clues through your cell phones; make the search climatic and end it in the bed room for a steamy body searches that both of you will surely enjoy.

4. Dance, dance, dance. Do you both love to dance? One of my unusual date ideas is to dance since I don't know how. But if you know how you can make the night fun by going in to a dance club, by all means, do dance the night away. But to make it a bit challenging by going to a dance club that do ballroom dancing or any dance you two are not familiar with. Dance the night away doing tango or salsa. The body contact will surely make the night sizzle.

5. Sunset watch. Nothing would be more romantic than the sunset at the beach. So, pack your tent and have a night trip to the beach. Take your girl with you without telling her where you two are going. Don't forget to buy her a sexy bikini as a present. Be sure that you will arrive there on time for the sunset. Prepare some delicious breakfast for a romantic picnic on the beach. If you are more on a dare devil side, go skinny dipping and make the early morning as hot as noon.

6. Walk around the city. Sometimes it needs the right time to find things out about your girl. Why not go walk around with her all night in the city and ask her all the questions that you had been thinking about? You will know tons of things about her! You can sit at the park up until dark sets. Then, you can end your date by eating some midnight snacks at a diner.

7. Be a hero. Why not do good things while having fun? Suit up in your Superman costume and make her wear a Super Girl number and help people around you. You don't need to lift trucks and save a kid from a burning building. You and your girl can go to an orphanage and give some story telling time to those needy kids. A day with the kids will make you appreciate life more.

Dating is a way to get to know each other better while having fun. You can do simple date ideas or if you are more adventurous, you can also do unusual date ideas. Whatever it is, you should make sure that both of you are having tons of fun. Just don't forget your camera to make everything memorable.